Is situations shapes our destiny? know the truth.
At a certain point of
life, things are not happening as per our expectations, we are not getting
better results in any area of our life like business, career, health,
relationships, mental wellbeing etc. and we link this situation to our destiny,
which we believe to be already determined. We look that situation as a biggest
block in our progress and achievements. But, let me ask you a one question, is
that really a situations in our life that blocks our progress?
This question has
strike in my mind when I was stuck in one of my problem and seems there were no
way to get out of that. But this question has changed my life forever.
Is situations in your life defines your
destiny?
“Some men see things as they are and say,
‘why?’
I dream of things that
never were, and say,
‘why not?’”
- George Bernard Shaw
Let’s find the answer
of this most valuable question that has a power to literally change our life.
Often we think that
what shapes our life is depends upon our current situations. Have you observed
that there are many cases around me and you that prove that it’s a biggest
lie that we have been told.
How? How your destiny
is not dependent on our current
situations? In one family, there were two child. They were been in a same
environment for the years, they were taught same things , values , by their
parents and their family. But why this happens that after a years, they are not
a same personalities at all. In most of the cases , if we compare the quality
of the life of both , there will be more difference in the life of both of
them. One may living a very successful life but other one just passing the day
after day living the same boring life. Or one may be completely successful
while other one is the complete failure. I am sure you have encounter such a
cases number of times in your life. Why this happens? Both children have face a
same situations but in future they both are totally different persons. That
clearly means that your destiny is not depends upon your situation .Then….
What determines your destiny?
Upto this point in our life we strongly use to believe
that situations in our life determine our destiny. But its time to break this
false belief pattern and built a new one to get extraordinary success in our
life.
Not the situations and
incidences in our life that shapes our destiny, but how we interpret that
situation in our mind truly makes a difference.
Situations are not positive or negative, these are only the effect of some
cause from the past. You can literally give a number of meaning to same
situation that results in different and long range of mental and emotional
changes. And in turn that will leads to a different actions.
We always have habitual
tendency to judge the events and situation in our life with some sort of fixed
mindset which has developed by our past experiences and beliefs. These past
experiences and beliefs make a certain pattern of perception of events and
situations in our mind. And we stuck in linear and never changing experience of
life.
Situations are not
important but how we see them is most important. For example; that was a year
when there were the lowest rainfall recorded in the particular region of
nation. Almost drought like condition. No enough water for industrial
utilization and also for agriculture. A farmer in one village has become a
victim of this situation. He constantly use to think that, how unlucky he is to
be a victim of such a condition? How will he get a enough money to survive if
there is no water to farm? What happen to his family?
There is another farmer
who also a victim of same problem. But he is thinking in a some different way.
He sees this situation from different perspective. He thinks in his mind that ,
what’s something great about this situation? What is positive about this? How
can I turn this around and more progress than ever before? He continue to ask
questions like this to himself. He ask himself that, how can he harvest a more
crop with minimum amount of water? There must be some way!
And guess what happens!
He come with a solution. He had done a lot of study and invent and employ a different
technologies in his farm that leads to a best results he has ever got in his
life. And what about another farmer. What has happen with him? You better know!
This is the power of
meaning that you give to a particular situation that has a power to create and
also power to destroy your life. Either you see the situation as a problem or as a opportunity to grow will define your future actions.
Do this simple exercise to start now…
How can use this time
to improve myself?
How can I use this time
to make myself able to enjoy my life?
What is great about
this time?
How
can I utilize this time to build a new skills?
How can I turn this
time into best time of my life?
By asking this questions I am sure that you will
find yourself acting in a some different way. And this will be a biggest turn
in your life.
Enjoy these tools to transform yourself and fulfill
your life with joy and happiness. Thank you! God bless you all!
Blog by – Mr. Kaivalya .R. Shastri & Team SpiritSol
Spiritsol Mind Technologies.
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